When parents fight, it directly harms children. Conflict isn’t just arguments. It is also when one parent says something negative about the other parent within earshot of the child. Or even when a parent simply rolls their eyes when a text comes in from the other parent.
Of course you don’t mean to harm your child but these habits can be hard to change after a difficult break up and challenging court experiences.
Parent coordination is a process where a neutral third party helps parents resolve conflicts related to co-parenting effectively. The parent coordinator acts as a mediator, facilitator, and sometimes an arbitrator to assist parents in making decisions on a wide range of issues regarding their children. These can include parenting schedules, communication methods, education, healthcare, and other important aspects of raising children post-separation or divorce.
Parent coordination aims to reduce conflict and improve communication between parents for the well-being of their children. The coordinator assists parents in interpreting and following a parenting plan, clarifying misunderstandings, and finding mutually agreeable solutions. This process can help parents focus on their children's needs and minimize the negative impact of ongoing conflicts on the family dynamic.
Overall, parent coordination is a valuable tool for parents seeking support in navigating the challenges of co-parenting after a separation, providing a structured and neutral environment for resolving disputes and fostering healthier relationships for the benefit of the children involved.
